This is an eternal question that has tormented more than one generation of mankind. Everyone knows very well that men and women have different parameters for choosing a partner. For some people love means only spiritual intimacy, and for some, physical. And how do we
women know how to attract and keep a man near you.
Choice of partner from the physiological side
Since ancient times, women have been the successors of the family. And a man has always tried to find a companion who could give birth to healthy and strong children, nurture and raise them. And even protect the children in moments of danger. At an instinctive level, this instinct remained in modern men. Let us consider some physical parameters in a woman's appearance that men pay attention to.
A woman should have a wide enough pelvis to carry and give birth to offspring. In medicine, the standard is the proportion of the figure in such ratios as the volume of the waist should be seventy percent of the circumference of the hips. They take into account the posture, how strong the muscles of the back. They also pay attention to the eyes. Eyes are an indicator of health, in addition to the beauty and decoration of a woman's face.
In the aesthetic sense, men have an opinion (also on a subconscious level) that an attractive woman will give birth to beautiful children. They also look at firm breasts, not of small size. So that there was milk and she was able to feed the child. Although it is proven that the size does not play a role here. And believe me, a man will not choose a woman who drinks alcohol or smokes as a life partner. Such communication to a joint life usually does not come.
Psychological criteria for choosing a woman
The choice of a woman at this level depends on a man's comfort level with this or that woman. Therefore, sometimes physical laws of attraction do not work here. The senses of the soul at the sensory level begin to work here. It is unlikely that a man will create
serious relationships with a woman who has masculine-like features in her behavior. For example, swearing and spitting.
First of all, he has the instinct of a protector, he must protect her. But this does not give a woman the right to be weak-willed, not having her own point of view, characterless. If you will be in something independent, then the man will feel self-sufficient. And not a money bag or a guardian.
Her independence can manifest itself not only
in material terms. She has to make the man feel that even if they do break up, she can live without him. He will have fears of losing her. She should first of all respect and love herself, the man, his environment, showing interest in his hobbies, interests.
Then he will be interested in her, he will feel not indifferent. After all, it is not without reason they say that men at heart are little children. Women should have enough intelligence and intelligence that she was an interesting conversationalist. After all, from communicating with another person, we learn something.
But a woman must have the wisdom and tact not to show a man her advantage in something. She can only quietly and unobtrusively guide the man in the right direction. A woman's femininity is given to her by nature and should not be forgotten.
Again, sharp movements, boyish behavior are not allowed, or the line between "your boyfriend", friend and just a girl will not be visible. Women are also present or completely absent sexuality. We are accustomed to attribute this feature to physical attraction. But it also happens in a psychological way.
Sexy is not a defiant demeanor in a mini skirt. It is a soft timbre of voice, a slightly feline demeanor and the ability to look at the interlocutor languidly. Don't forget your scent. Scents also signal to the cerebral cortex. All of this can be learned. Cheerfulness and
optimism are also welcome. Who would want to be around a perpetually disgruntled, envious gossip.
A woman serves for a man's state of mind as a battery, from which he can be charged with positivity, with which he can forget, at least for a while, about his problems.
Do not forget that the physical condition of a man, his ability to work and vitality, entirely depend on his psychological state. Woman is the keeper of the home, she is skilled in creating comfort. A man who is near her should rest not only in soul, but also in body.